[Listening is the one social thing he's good at doing!!]

No, I get it. I mean, I'm not a detective and I don't know what that's like, but when you can separate yourself from things a bit it makes it a lot easier.

[Admittedly with him the problem is actually sympathizing with both the victims and the murderers, because he's a soldier and he's killed people and boy is he still super fucked up about it!!]

It's a lot to take in. This is all way more personal because we're trapped in here with each other. Even if we tried to be distant, we'd still end up with some sort of fondness for one another. What you're going through is pretty normal, I'd think.